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Brianne N.
Art Luver
Posts : 709
Join date : 2010-05-24
Age : 43
Location : Fort Lewis, WA
|  Subject: Guilt...  May 28th 2010, 14:58 | |
| This weekend my AWESOME husband took our son on his first "Daddy/Son Camping Trip". I feel a little guilty that I did not go but he really wanted to give me some "downtime" after being a single mom for almost 2 years while he was away for training and overseas.
On one hand, I think to myself, "Self, you deserve this time! Enjoy it!"
And on the other, I think, "wow, he is going to come home WORE OUT because that little guy can run the most energetic person into the ground". LOL!!
Would you feel guilty taking "me" time on a holiday weekend like this? | |
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Shawnaw
Sketch Book
Posts : 142
Join date : 2010-05-24
Age : 42
Location : Virginia
| | Subject: Re: Guilt... May 28th 2010, 15:03 | |
| Don't feel guilty. A little me time is always deserved. Its good father/son time for them. Enjoy your time! | |
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juliesaddiction
Sketch Book
Posts : 104
Join date : 2010-05-24
Age : 63
Location : Sunny So CAl
| | Subject: Re: Guilt... May 28th 2010, 15:21 | |
| Heck no!!! They will have the time of your lives and you so deserve to recharge!!! | |
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*ANDREA*AMU*
Permanent Marker
Posts : 1702
Join date : 2010-05-25
Age : 51
Location : PA
| | Subject: Re: Guilt... May 28th 2010, 16:03 | |
| You shouldn't feel guilty. They'll have a great time together  You have a great weekend too, and I hope you are planning to do something fun ! | |
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Garsy
Easel
Posts : 235
Join date : 2010-05-24
Location : Indiana
| | Subject: Re: Guilt... May 28th 2010, 16:27 | |
| When your husband volunteers to take the boy out - LET him! It's his way of showing you he loves and appreciates YOUR service to him. Don't deny him the opportunity to serve you!
And they'll come back with a closer bond that is absolutely priceless!
Garsy | |
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danielle wycough
Easel
Posts : 270
Join date : 2010-05-24
Age : 48
Location : Texas
| | Subject: Re: Guilt... May 28th 2010, 17:07 | |
| Enjoy it, and be very thankful that your husband wants you to have that time Your son and his Daddy will have a great time together. Enjoy yourself girlie!!! | |
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jessiw
Fixative Spray
Posts : 2155
Join date : 2010-05-24
Age : 42
Location : North Carolina
| | Subject: Re: Guilt... May 28th 2010, 18:27 | |
| DO NOT FEEL GUILTY!! I used to think like that, but I have realized staying at home with my kids, that not only do you need the time away from them, but they really need the time away from you too!! It's good to get a break. Mine are with me ALL THE TIME...and sometimes you can tell they just want some "Daddy" or "Nana" time...and it's good for them.
SO ENJOY YOURSELF!!!! | |
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Marcee
Blank Canvas
Posts : 53
Join date : 2010-05-24
Age : 51
Location : PNW
| | Subject: Re: Guilt... May 28th 2010, 20:08 | |
| - danielle wycough wrote:
- Enjoy it, and be very thankful that your husband wants you to have that time Your son and his Daddy will have a great time together. Enjoy yourself girlie!!!
DITTO! | |
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Stacey
Blank Canvas
Posts : 91
Join date : 2010-05-24
Location : Georgia
| | Subject: Re: Guilt... May 28th 2010, 20:19 | |
| Enjoy it girl! As a fellow military spouse I know all about being a "single mom" and like Danielle said, enjoy the fact that you have a wonderful husband who wants to give you a much deserved break! It took me a long time to not feel guilty and just enjoy it too so don't feel bad  | |
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CarrieF.
Life Artisit
Posts : 3134
Join date : 2010-04-13
Age : 62
Location : Indiana
| | Subject: Re: Guilt... May 28th 2010, 21:02 | |
| most definitely don't feel guilty! it's awesome that your hubby and son have some one on one time. it's good for them, and for you. enjoy your alone time !! | |
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